Confession:  in a moment of nothing to read on the bus on the way home last night desperation, I bought a copy of Glamour – justified by way of it being several steps above Cosmo and the fact that I just could not bring myself to buy and then read therefore subjecting my fragile ego and thin bank account to the delights of the fall Vogue

I giggled at the “Do’s & Dont’s”, covertly read what men love and not so much in bed, scanned the fashion forecast and intently studied the hairstyle of the stars tips

then I came across this gem:  “don’t make a priority of someone who considers you an option”

so simple, yet so very true